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Day by day I get to watch as Preemie is growing. Since she was 10 weeks premature I have great concerns over her reaching, or not reaching milestones that children are expected to reach within a certain time frame. Preemie is now one year and 2 months old, and almost one year corrected. Until she reaches the age of two, she will always have her age adjusted when related to milestones.
So where is she now, taking into consideration that she’s almost a year old corrected I would say she is doing magically. She’s a crawling machine, she stands, she’s starting to let go a bit, she’s walking holding on a few steps and shes moving and grooving. My biggest concern thus far is that she still doesn’t sit up from a laying position, she turns onto her belly to sit up. But she has become an expert recently in going from the crawling to sitting position.
At our last visit to the developmental clinic a few months ago, I was told by the therapist that she is right on target for her corrected age. She asked me what kind of toys she plays with and advised that I clean out any toys that were not age appropriate. Meaning I was to get rid of all the “baby” stuff like rattles and other non skill building toys. She needs to learn to manipulate objects that will help her grow.
As our little ones grow, discover and develop, it’s important to have toys and games that help our children learn every step of the way. VTech® is working very closely with their panel of children’s learning experts on the development of its infant and preschool learning products. With the creation of the Expert Panel, VTech® is continuing its commitment to building on children’s knowledge, one milestone at a time!
The VTech® Expert panel has put together an incredible milestones resource for parents to explore. The milestones are broken down by ages that range from newborn to nine years old with each age range broken down into three categories of learning:
- Language and Cognitive
- Social and Emotional Development
- Physical and Motor
Each category guides the parents through the developmental stages for their child, along with recommended products that will facilitate your child’s learning and growth. Watch as Dr. Eliot introduces you to the Milestones Resource in this video.
Parents like myself often worry about which milestones children should be reaching at which age. So parents were invited to submit their questions to Dr. Lise Eliot who is part of the VTech® Expert Panel, which is compiled of six industry experts. Below you will find Dr. Eliot’s answers to many commonly asked questions about reaching milestones:
Q. As a parent, what are your suggestions on things I can do with my child to help them develop their social and emotional skills? What are ways I can help my child to get the most of their playtime?
A. Social-emotional skills are the bedrock of learning, so good for you for taking an interest in cultivating them in your child. The best way to promote emotional and interpersonal skills is through interaction–reading, singing and lots of talking with your child. Make eye contact with him or her. Laugh together. Direct your child’s attention to interesting things in your environment. When you read together, ask your child questions about the characters’ thoughts and feelings. This can help build empathy. Another way to think about it is to use books or videos as a stepping stone for dialogue with your child. It’s the two-way, back-and-forth sharing of words and feelings that build emotional and communication skills. Playtime has ample opportunity to do this, whether you are visiting the zoo, finger-painting, or playing with toys. Take every opportunity to talk about the feelings and relationships among characters your child is drawing or playing with.
Q. As a stay-at-home mom, I feel like I’m responsible for most of my toddler’s learning the first couple of years. How can I ensure that I’m teaching him all he needs to know? What are the best games or play to help him learn basics things like numbers, colors, words, etc.?
A. Children learn through play, so almost any activity is a learning opportunity for your child. Show your child how to count banana slices at lunch time, or toothbrush strokes at bedtime. Read ABC books to him to teach letter sounds and recognition. But don’t worry too much about academic skills in younger children. Most important at this age is for children to learn the joy of discovery. Try to avoid drilling exercises (like flashcards) and instead focus on learning about the real world around him–animals, people, vehicles, music, art–whatever you encounter through books or the world outside that excites your child. When kids find a passion and get absorbed in it, early literacy and number skills follow easily.
Q. What if it seems like your child isn’t reaching a particular milestone, what can you do to facilitate the learning of it? While every child is different, are there any Milestones (when not achieved on schedule) a parent should be concerned about?
A. It’s important for parents to know what milestones to expect, because failure to reach them can be a warning sign of a developmental delay. For social skills, we like to see babies making eye contact early on, and worry if it doesn’t happen by 3 months or age, or if s/he is not sharing facial expressions or some other kind of back-and-forth communication by 9 months. For language skills, we worry when children are saying no words by 16 months, or only a few words at 2 years, and when there is any loss of communication ability at any age. For motor skills, it is concerning if a baby cannot bring an object to his or her mouth by 7 months, sit independently by 10 months, or walk by 18 months. If your child isn’t reaching these milestones, talk to your pediatrician, who may propose additional testing and exercises you can do with your child at home to promote his or her development.
Q. My 2 year old (26 months to be exact) barely talks unless she wants to. She has two older siblings who tend to speak for her. She can string a few words together like “me up” or “love you.” How can we encourage her to talk more and what VTech products would be most beneficial for her?
A. There’s a simple equation to verbal development: “Language in = Language out” The more words you and others address to your child, the larger her own vocabulary will eventually be. You are right that younger children sometimes do have trouble getting a word in edgewise in a big family. Find opportunities when your daughter can be the only one speaking. Try to carve out some one-on-one time, when you are just focused on each other, and make sure to listen and respond to every word or babble she makes, acting as if you understand her. Imitate her words and sounds and offer lots of praise. Just giving your child the confidence that she is being heard will provide great reinforcement to encourage her to speak more.
Also, VTech’s infant toys can promote this language development since most produce simple words or phrases that babies love to control. Toys such as Cody The Smart Cub™ and Cora The Smart Cub™ introduce children to first words, emotions, stories, sing-alongs, and more.
Q. How do doctors come up with specific milestones for each age group? What are some milestones for older age groups (up to age 9)?
A. Infant developmental milestones have been cataloged by studying thousands of babies from all walks of life. In healthy children, the various milestones emerge in a predictable sequence and time, give or take a few weeks or months. This predictable pattern is due to the maturation sequence of the developing brain, along with the typical sequence of practice most babies engage in, given their gradually growing strength and coordination. Some milestones you can look for as your child gets older include: able to draw a circle at age 3, asking lots of “Why” questions at age 4, knowing his or her letters at age 5, tying shoes at age 6, reading aloud fluently at age 7, and a big spurt of social independence beginning at 8-9 .
Q. What are some of the benefits of teaching children sign language at a young age to help improved their cognitive, motor and social skills? How can teaching sign language to my child help promote more than language development? How can sign language help stimulate a child’s brain in other ways?
A. The research on sign language is not terribly strong, but enough has been done to indicate that sign language may benefit your child’s overall language development. The more words addressed to babies, whether spoken or gestured, the faster their own vocabulary growth. Sign language also has the advantage that it is easier for babies to communicate using simple gestures, compared to oral articulation. So especially in the first year of life, some babies find it easier to communicate their needs when taught simple signs, and may express less frustration than infants who were not exposed to baby signing.
The VTech® Expert Panel is compromised of Dr. Lise Eliot, Early Childhood Mental Development Expert, along with five other experts in the industry, who collaborated with VTech® to develop the Milestones resource.
Have you celebrated any milestones with your children recently? Share them with us and their age, we love to hear about how your children are growing and learning.
VTech was gracious enough to provide me a gift pack of toys to giveaway away to one of my readers to help their little ones achieve their milestones.
Lil’ Critters Play & Dream Musical Piano™ (Ages 0-12 months; MSRP $24.99 – On sale for $22.46)
· Learn and play music with animal friends! The Lil’ Critters Play & Dream Musical Piano by VTech® has a variety of fun musical activities that engage your child on the floor or attached to the crib.
· This soft piano features five animal piano keys that introduce music, instruments and animals.
· The piano also includes a light-up sun that shines and flashes to the music to attract your baby’s attention.
· Choose from two modes of play for fun learning and music activities.
Roll & Surprise Animal Train™ (Ages 6-36 months; MSRP: $15.99 – On sale for $14.39)
· Your little one will enjoy peek-a-boo fun and develop fine motor skills through turn, slide and press activities.
· Animal friends introduce animal names, animal sounds and colors.
· This educational toy also rewards curiosity and teaches cause and effect with pop-up surprises and 55 songs, melodies, sounds, and phrases.
Chomp & Count Dino™ (Ages 12-36 months; MSRP: $19.99 – On sale for $12.59)
· Simply place one of the eight brightly-colored play pieces in the dino’s mouth and watch as he eats and recognizes each piece.
· Play in either food or counting mode and the dino responds with rewarding sounds and phrases all while introducing colors, numbers, shapes and more.
· Press the question button and kids can answer the dino’s questions to show what they’ve learned.
· Five shape buttons help kids learn shapes and numbers, while spinning the disc on the dino’s back will play sing-along songs.
· The dino can also be pushed or pulled by a string for even more fun melodies.
One lucky reader will have the chance to win a VTech® gift pack of the milestone toys mentioned above, Roll & Surprise Animal Train™, Chomp & Count Dino™ and the Lil’ Critters Play & Dream Musical Piano™, ARV $61. This giveaway will run from December 1, 2014 through December 13, 2014. All entrants must be at least 18 years of age or older. This giveaway is open to residents of the United States, no P.O. Boxes. No purchase is necessary to enter. Void where prohibited by law. One entrant per ip address and/or household. The odds of winning are based on the number of entries received. Confirmed Winner(s) (by Random.org) will be contacted by email. Winner(s) have 48 hours to respond before a new winner is chosen. You must use the Rafflecopter below to enter. Good Luck!
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